Anonymous asked: How can you say you aren't a mother. It makes your "miscarriage" seem a bit odd. I'm not saying you're a liar, but as someone who has miscarried it's just weird that you are so nonchalant and wouldn't even consider yourself a mother.
Oh, well I am definitely not lying. I don’t know. I guess I feel like I am a mother… but I don’t have any actual children to show for it, so I don’t want other people to think I’m making it up or something? I don’t mean to seem so nonchalant. I miss my baby everyday and think of Charlie constantly.
I think mostly it is the fact that I am afraid someone else will call me out on not being a mother, so I would rather not have someone be rude and upset me, so I just sugar coat it.
I also feel like people can’t always understand miscarriages and actually a lot of people wouldn’t consider me a mother at all. They would say that it wasn’t even a baby at the time so I shouldn’t even care. but they’re wrong. Charlie has changed me so much…
I guess I should stop caring about what other people think.
